Let’s get to know one another… 

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Woman looking out at a mountain while in a hot spring in Mexico

Hi, I’m Shelley…

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I help women cross Solo Travel & Mexico Travel off their bucket list!


I’m a former Miami travel magazine editor who ditched the office for the world!

Well… that’s the short & sweet & neat version. The real version is a little more imperfect, a lot more scary & actually, I became a solo traveler by accident 😳

Like most unplanned things, however, it has empowered & fulfilled me in ways I could never have imagined!

I first arrived to Mexico on April 4, 2018 — with no plans of staying — but again, like most unplanned things, I loved this country way more than I could never have imagined!

The Hero’s Journey



If not, have you ever heard of Harry Potter, The Hunger Games, The Lord of the Rings & Star Wars? That was clearly a rhetorical question because of course you have!

All of these stories follow the concept Campbell called the monomyth, which means “one myth,” and refers to how our collective idea of a hero(ine) follows the same narrative cycle. 

I’m pretty big into Campbell’s work. Throughout the last few years of my life, I have come to identify how my journey to becoming the confidant solo traveler I am today, was my Hero’s Journey.


You are the hero of your own story. ~Joseph Campbell


A hero is someone who has given his or her life to something bigger than oneself. ~Joseph Campbell


The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek. ~Joseph Campbell


We must be willing to get rid of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. ~Joseph Campbell


Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls. ~Joseph Campbell


If you can see your path laid out in front of you step by step, you know it’s not your path. ~Joseph Campbell


The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are. ~Joseph Campbell


I don’t believe people are looking for the meaning of life as much as they are looking for the experience of being alive. ~Joseph Campbell


Find a place inside where there’s joy, and the joy will burn out the pain. ~Joseph Campbell


You are the hero of your own story. ~Joseph Campbell


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